Jada Pinkett Smith reveals cheating could be good for any relationship. She is a very popular American actress, singer -songwriter believes that it may improve your relationship if the both partners do put their egos aside.
The forty one year old. who has been married to Men in Black actor Will Smith for fourteen years now, also goes on to say that infidelity could help create some greater understanding and respect between a couple, however she has hinted that she would never tolerate any sort of cheating.
The ‘Madagascar’ star posted some thoughtful advice to the question,
”Should I stay with a mate after she or he has cheated on me?” on her Facebook page on Thursday (20.06.13), writing: ”My observation has been that when most people cheat, they are trying to solve a problem. They are usually in some kind of emotional trouble or confusion that they believed the cheating would relieve.
”Know this, if someone has cheated on you who truly loves you, they have hurt themselves as much as they have hurt you.
”This makes for a great opportunity to deepen the relationship with thorough honesty, which creates deeper respect with some serious setting of boundaries. This is also when love gets real and true and illuminates what you are made of as a couple and as individuals. Situations like these could be the windows to a deeper commitment OR… to two separate paths on the way to look for new partners. Only the unique nature of your specific relationship can be the telling factor.”
”This is not referring to habitual cheaters. That is a different matter.”
Jada also said that she would never walk out on her husband to whom she has two children with, fourteen year old Jaden and twelve year old Willow. She said:
”What is the thing that Will could do that would make me not love him? That would make me abandon him? I can’t think of one. I’m sorry. Except if he did something bad to the kids – now we’ve got a problem. But that’s it. We’ve had such an extraordinary life together.”